I’m The Jealous Wife and I’m Working On It – Part 4

How I’m Working on Myself So, I’ve laid out my issues and insecurities. I’ve opened up about my deep-seated feelings that stem from childhood. I’ve shown that you are not alone in feeling jealous, envious, and insecure when you are in a non-monogamous relationship. I’ve reassured you that feeling those ways doesn’t mean you shouldn’t […]

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Poly In A Time Of COVID

By June (A Guest Writer) So, a little bit about me. I am married and a mother. I also have a girlfriend, Snow, and a lover, Hatter. Poly is complicated in the best of times, but let’s add in a pandemic! My husband and I live together and raise our littles together, so that is […]

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I’m The Jealous Wife and I’m Working On It – Part 3

Part 3: How My Insecurities Affect My Friendships/Relationships As mentioned in Part 2, my main insecurities seem to center around not being good enough, others being more fun or cooler than me, and of being abandoned. The ways in which these insecurities present themselves tend to be through paranoia and jealousy/envy, which we touched on […]

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I’m The Jealous Wife and I’m Working On It – Part 2

Part 2: The History of My Insecurities As we talked about in Part 1, insecurities are the underlying cause of jealousy and envy. So, after you do the first step of acknowledging that you’re feeling jealous/envious, the second step is to figure out where those feelings are stemming from. What is making you insecure? What […]

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I’m The Jealous Wife, and I’m Working on It – Part 1

This is a 4-part series about jealousy, envy, insecurities, and moving past them. Part 1 focuses on explaining the difference between jealousy and envy and how those feelings stem from insecurities. Part 2 details how my past experiences led to my current insecurities. Part 3 shows how my insecurities have caused (and still cause) me […]

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“Oh, I’m a lesbian…That makes sense!”

*All names have been changed* Brittany grew up in a small, conservative town in a Christian family, where there wasn’t even a choice to be gay. She had no chance to explore her sexuality in her teens or even early 20s. She went from living in a Christian household, where any suspected same-sex attraction was […]

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Acceptance and Rejection: A Coming Out Story

By Patrick (a guest writer) *All names have been changed* Known Since Childhood I knew I was gay as far back as I can remember.  When I was younger, I guess I wouldn’t label myself as ‘gay’ because I didn’t have the complete knowledge of what that term meant – or what it meant to […]

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Trying Parallel Polyamory

Sometimes it is so hard to write because you don’t know if you’re explaining all your thoughts correctly or how they will be interpreted. You might think it seems perfectly explained in your head but then you realize you forgot to add a key thought. This is a very raw blog; a look into my […]

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Experiences in Sexuality

*All names have been changed for anonymity* I was so interested in my own realization of sexuality that I decided to ask some other people about their experiences. I’ve actually been surprised over the years how many people I know, and have known for years, who identify as something other than heterosexual. I don’t know […]

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My Journey of Discovering Sexuality Later in Life

*All names were changed* I considered myself straight for the first 25 years of my life. I had liked boys since a very young age. There’s an old journal entry from when I was 7 years old, where I wrote (with questionable spelling and grammar) about how I had a crush on Thomas, a boy […]

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