Sex Drive in the Midst of a Pandemic

So, how is everyone feeling? Super horny? Like you’ll never be horny again? No change at all? From some very unscientific surveys I’ve done, I’d say the human race is all over the place right now, which makes sense. People are going to respond differently to the stress and anxiety of the time.  Melissa with […]

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Whose Last Name?

Our Situation Being involved with two men has often brought up the question of whose last name me and the kids should take. Or should the whole family just make up a new last name or should we hyphenate? Or if we want to reject the patriarchal ways of society, should everyone take my maiden […]

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The Readers’ Pros and Cons of Being Poly During COVID-19

So, here we are, everyone — about two weeks into the quarantine, isolation, whatever you prefer to call it. Many state governors have officially locked down states, telling citizens to shelter-in-place, which honestly many people were doing already. It’s a crazy time to be alive! Toilet paper is flying off shelves, conspiracy theorists are thriving, […]

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Are they ethically non-monogamous?

Now that I know what polyamory and non-monogamy are and identify as such, sometimes I wonder who else I meet or pass on the street also identifies that way. Because of the stigma and discrimination, most people are discreet about having multiple relationships or partners, especially if they have children or have a job that […]

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The Pros and Cons of Being Poly during COVID-19

I had fully intended for my first post on this blog to be a history of how my husband and I discovered polyamory. Little did I know, the whole world was about to shut down because of a novel virus, and it seems almost silly not to write about what’s going on now. I hope […]

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